Bishop Wills' Life Journal entry for July 24, 2008 -- The Blessing Is Not For Me Only

S: 1Peter 3: 6-7 (The Message)
Summing up: Be agreeable, be sympathetic, be loving, be compassionate, be humble. That goes for all of you, no exceptions. No retaliation. No sharp tongued sarcasm. Instead, bless - that’s your job, to bless. You’ll be a blessing and also get a blessing.

O: This passage is the recipe of how Christ followers are to live. There seems to be no other way that is acceptable for those of us who claim to follow Jesus.

A: This passage looks easy at first. Of course I seek to be all positive attitudes as a Christian. And, when there is no one around, I can do all of them without much effort. For me, the problem comes when there is tension or conflict. That is when “the rubber hits the road”.

I think the secret, for me, is to stop trying to live by a check list, but rather to focus my life on being a blessing to others. In fact early in the Old Testament God tells Abram in Genesis 12:2 “I will make you a great nation and bless you….You will be a blessing.

I think the only reason we are blessed is so that we can be a blessing to others. If I am blessed (which I am), it is not for me, but rather I am blessed in order that I might be a blessing to others.

Since I feel so very blessed this day, I will use this blessing to bless others who cross my path.

P: Father thank you for the many blessings in my life. May I never think the blessings are only for me. But rather may I use my blessings to bless others. Love, Dick

Y: I will seek to be a blessing to all I encounter today.

Teen musician steps up to lead church choir

Music director Ryan Brunkhurst, 15, leads choir rehearsal at Mount Gretna (Pa.) United Methodist Church. UMNS photos by John Gordon.

By John Gordon*

MOUNT GRETNA, Pa. (UMNS)-Many members of the choir he leads are old enough to be his grandparents.

But 15-year-old Ryan Brunkhurst is more than the choir director and organist at Mount Gretna United Methodist Church. He also shows members of the Pennsylvania congregation how youth can make valuable contributions to the church.

"I love hymns," he says. "I love taking a hymn and just putting my own style into it and just playing the way I like to play."

Ryan volunteered for the job last year when the church needed to find a new organist.

The Rev. Janet Steger says Brunkhurst is treated with respect by choir members, many of whom are old enough to be his grandparent

"We did not have a choir director, and there might not be music, special music, anthems and such for Christmas, (so he decided) that he had to do something because he loves Christmas," says the Rev. Janet Steger, pastor of Mount Gretna. "And so he came to me and he said, 'You know, that's not acceptable to me, so I will lead the choir.'"

Grandma's lessons
Ryan first played the organ at the church when he was 11-and barely able to reach the pedals. His first introduction to music came when he was 3.

"My grandma taught me how to just play some of the basic things," he says. "She was the organist at her church at 12."

He's now taking organ lessons from a college instructor.

Ryan says he feels comfortable around church members who are often several times his age. "I don't get along with most people that are my age too well," he says. "I get along with a lot-older people."

Tracie Brunkhurst encouraged her son to pursue the choir director's position.

"He takes it upon himself to do these things and he looks forward to it, and he really puts all his efforts into it," says Mrs. Brunkhurst. "We often say that he's a 60-year-old man trapped in a 15-year-old's body."

Ryan does not neglect his homework while he plays for the choir. He's at the top of his class with a perfect grade-point average.

Age not a barrier
Ryan held a benefit recital at the church that raised $2,000 for sanctuary renovations. Steger says he's also involved in mission work and other programs at the church.

"Because he is so talented, the adults in this church treat him with a lot of respect," she says. "And I don't know that we always treat and honor our children and our youth with a lot of respect."

Sarah Ellis, a member of the Mount Gretna choir since the time Ryan was born, says the age difference is no barrier when the choir rehearses and performs. "I forget that he's only 15, I truly do," says Ellis. "I know when I was his age, I don't think that anything like that would have even been on my radar."

Choir member Ron Jones, 54, calls Ryan "very gifted" and predicts he will go far in his future endeavors.

"The hour that we spend together every Tuesday night (rehearsing) is, I would say, about half serious and about half bantering back and forth between choir members. And I think that's part of our identity and that existed before Ryan, but it continues now," Jones says.

But there is one reminder of Ryan's young age. Choir members offer to take him home after practice, since he is not yet old enough to get a driver's license.

Using God's gifts
Ryan hopes to continue his musical pursuit after high school. He wants to get a doctoral degree in music, play for a church and perform.

Based on what they've seen so far, members of his congregation have little doubt he will succeed.
"If I wasn't the organist here and if I didn't use my talents in a good way, I just can't imagine that," he says. "I mean, when God gives you something like that, it's just, how can you not use it."

*Gordon is a freelance producer in Marshall, Texas.